September 25, 2011

Tipping the maid


Last week, in San Antonio, I was sitting in a restaurant by the River Walk with some friends. We were about to pay our bill, and discussed the tips. We're not used to tipping where I come from. For most types of services, it's all included.

I learnt about tipping when we lived in Colorado. You should tip about anyone who provides you a service; waiters, taxi drivers, hair dressers, and room maids (but not room mates). I reminded my friends that they should tip the maid before checking out of the hotel (some of them where leaving the next day).

(In a fair world people like me would be paid less, and the maids would be paid more. I know this sounds like a socialist thing to say, and I guess I'm kind of socialist at heart, at least in theory, and sometimes I even try to practice.)

The maids are doing a nasty job cleaning our rooms, and they don't get much paid for it. I know, because one of them once told me. This happened many years ago in New Orleans, before Katarina destroyed the city.

I stayed in Hotel Monteleone, an old hotel with a historic atmosphere in the French Quarter. One day I returned to my room to pick up some stuff I had forgotten, and I came in while the maid was cleaning my room. She asked where I came from (I'm speaking English with an accent), and then we had the conversation going. She was a cute Afro-American girl, grown up in New Orleans. She had two little kids, and was totally relying on tips to make enough money to keep it going. Her salary was less than $5 per hour (she said).

In the morning the day before I left, I met her in the corridor outside my room. She told me that she had her day off the next day, which was my checkout day (she probably new from her room list). It was a discrete hint that I should leave her the tips one day early. Otherwise it would end up with a different maid.

So, this is what I did: I put $50 on the desk in my room, $10 for each day she had cleaned my room, and wrote on a note that it was her tips (she was a very cute girl). When I came back to my room that night, there was a box wrapped in gift paper on my bed, and a card signed "Best Wishes, Your Maid".

I unwrapped the parcel. In the box there was a small ceramic bathtub with the hotel's logo. She had stolen it in the hotel's stock of bathroom accessories. I brought the bathtub back home, and had it for many years in my office, with pens and pencils in it.

Now the bathtub is lost and gone. I don't know where, but I'm sure I'll book in at Hotel Monteleone the next time I make it to New Orleans >:)

(The picture above has nothing to do with the story above, which took place before the advent of digital cameras. However, New Orleans and Austin both reminds me of great live music, jazz and blues, respectively. The picture was taken by a friend of mine, some years ago, when we happened to spend a night on 6th Street in Austin, Texas.)

12 comments:

  1. i love everything about this post. :)

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  2. Tipping is a part of life here. Because, at heart, I'm a socialist too, I feel guilty about my privileges and so always tip far too much for any service I receive. I see it as a small way of redressing the imbalance between the haves and the have-nots, at least in my little corner of the world.
    Loved the story about your gift from the hotel maid!
    Judy, South Africa

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  3. I worked as a waitress many years ago. Even today, waitresses are only paid $2.35 and hour. That is $5.00 below minimum wage!
    So people who tip well are right at the top of my list.
    and I love your photo. Funny that the EXIT is the Men's Room. That's a nasty habit men have around here, pissing outside.

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  4. This post was fun! :) It's really cool that you were so generous with your tips, and it's super neat that she responded in that way! :) I'm not a fan of socialism, but generosity is something that should never go out of style in my opinion.

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  5. id: Thanks, I'm glad you did >:)

    Judy: If everybody had the same attitude as you, it could make a big difference

    Nessa: The door to the men's room just led to the backyard. It was the only option as far as I could see >:)

    Josh: I'm not a fan of all aspects of socialism, and there has been some unsuccesful attempts at implementing it (such as the Soviet Union and Cuba). But I like some of the basic ideology. For instance, I can't see any logical reason why the rich should get better education and health care than the poor. I did not grow up rich (and not poor either), but I was fortunate to grow up with free education, from elementary school to PhD. Now I happily pay 48% income tax, to make sure that future generations get the same free schools that I did >:)

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  6. You're a big tipper. I'm amazed at how some bosses disregard the minimum wage rule. Here in Oz, I think the minimum wage is $18 per hour but I was asking a restaurant owner how much they paid for their waiter (my nephew wants to come over here and work) and she said $8!

    Every Savage Can Reproduce

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  7. Good tip! Yes, lots of tipping going on here. When in doubt, I end up tipping. You're right, the salary for the service industry should be much higher.

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  8. I was thinking about this the other day. Why is pay and income so unblanced? And, one place that seems really out of whack is the puny amount we pay people to care for our children.

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  9. Just read Buttercup. Gruesomely fun.

    I like what you say about a fair world. Tipping always feels strange--like a system designed to cause accidental offense; or like those school prayers where you give thanks for what you're told to give thanks for, even if it's detention.

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  10. Enid: I think waiters should earn more and be less relying on the tips. I hope your nephew gets a good job >:)

    Elizabeth: When we lived in Colorado, all the tipping felt a little bit awkward, trying to always carry some small dollar bills in the pocket and stuff like that. But we got used to it.

    Mary: The world has never been fair, and it will probably never be, unfortunately.

    Sheila: It's been my favorite tale since I was a kid. Glad you enjoyed it >:)

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  11. What a great story! Often it's the most difficult and dangerous jobs that pay the least. Doesn't seem quite right.

    I've stayed at the Hotel Monteleone. That Carousel bar made me carsick!

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  12. Jayne: Let me know next time you stay in Monteleone. Then we can meet for a dark beer in the Carousel bar >;)

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