Finding oil

It’s not easy, and never will be. We all want to be nice and good people. On the other hand, life is passing by, right now. We won't get the chance to do it all over. We're not getting any younger.

This is a continuation of a post I wrote some time ago: Drilling a dry hole. If you didn't like that post, stop reading now.

OK, here we go; this is the big question: If you're tired of drilling dry holes, what can you do to find oil? (Sorry about the poor metaphors, they're just popping out.)

The best is, no doubt, like-minded partners, who accept and approve their respective entertainment on the other side of the fence, or leap the fence together, like fellow bloggers Hotwife Anna and Hubby.

But, if you're not among the few in that lucky situation, what can you do? There are three options, I think:
o Manage on your own, playing your drums, bursting out.
o Play around with technology, with friends all over the world. I'm sure you'll find some like-minded.
o The Nike way.

You can buy anything for money, of course, but that's not too interesting. Then we're back to drilling dry holes, which is what we wanted to avoid in he first place.

You can get a divorce, then you're free to do whatever you want. Not a good solution neither, if you're good friends, cooperating well in all respects. And it would mean failing the kids. Playing games is not nice. Where is the border between the acceptable and unacceptable? I'm not sure.

Finding oil is not easy, not if you want to do it frequently. Whatever. I'm not doing much. I just think about it ... >:)